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Should your person be reading this instead?Caring is easy. Knowing what to do is the hard part.
We turn birthdays, anniversaries, date nights, proposals, and getaways into personalized plans that live in one private platform and build into keepsakes over time.
✦ Plans from $8 · any budget, from $0 up · anywhere in the world
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The moment is coming. Choose your moment.
Moments we can help you plan
Date Night
Stop having the “what do you want to do?” conversation.
Fresh date ideas every month, matched to your city, your budget, and what you two actually like. Pick your favorite and we'll build it into a complete plan. And between dates, it's still yours: games for the bored nights, a shared calendar so nothing slips, and a scrapbook that keeps the best nights from blurring together.
The Birthday Plan
Make it feel like you've been planning it for weeks.
Answer a few questions about them. What they love, what they'd hate, what this birthday means. Within 72 hours you'll have the full plan: the itinerary, gift ideas that actually fit them, and a backup in case the weather turns. And it lives in your Big Moments account, alongside a calendar, games, and notes you keep for free.
The Big Q
You know who you want to ask. We help you figure out how.
We start with your story and build the proposal around it: location, timing, what to say, how to present the ring, a day-of checklist, and a backup plan for weather, crowds, or nerves. Want a second set of eyes? Add a private prep call and we'll pressure-test the whole plan with you. And when they say yes, the moment is already saved where your story lives.
No generic ideas. No last-minute panic. Just a real plan, built around the person you're celebrating, on any budget, whether that's a birthday or an anniversary.
Marking a year together? That one has its own page: anniversary planning, done for you
✦ These are founding-member prices. Join now and your rate is locked in for life. ✦
You bring the love. We bring the plan.
The “let’s make sure we never have to swipe again” app for people who believe effort is romantic.
Keep the nights, not just the plans
Date Night members don't just get planned dates every month. Every date has little keepsake moments built in: a question to ask over dinner, a few seconds of video worth taking on the walk. Afterward, send us your photos and voice notes and we turn the night into a keepsake scrapbook you keep forever.
A year from now you won't just remember that you went out. You'll have the night itself.
How it works
Tell us about them
A short questionnaire about your partner, your relationship, and the moment you want to create.
We build your plan
Our team turns it into a clear plan made for the two of you. Timing, ideas, what to say, and backups.
You show up
We handle the details. You bring the moment.
Made for everyone who loves someone
Big Moments is for anyone with a person worth celebrating: the one whose calendar runs the whole household and would love a month off, new couples still learning each other, married couples somewhere around date number two hundred. Every plan is built around your relationship, your city, and your budget, from a zero-dollar night in to a once-in-a-lifetime production. And if the one who should be reading this is your partner? That's what Drop a Hint is for. It works exactly the way it sounds.
Questions?
What do you actually do?
We build you a step-by-step plan tailored to your relationship. What to say, where to go, who to contact, and how to pull it off.
Is this going to be complicated?
No. The questionnaire takes 10–40 minutes depending on the plan, and we walk you through every step after that.
What if I mess something up?
Every plan includes backup options, so you're never stuck.
Will this feel scripted or forced?
Our plans help you express what you already feel. Everything is built around your relationship. It should feel like you on your best day.
Take us with you.
Big Moments works in any browser. It's on your phone too, so your plans, your keepsakes, and next month's date night are a tap away.
iPhone app coming soon.