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Should your person be reading this instead?Date night, made for you two
Three complete, personalized date itineraries every month. Not generic ideas, real plans, with the moments worth keeping turned into keepsake scrapbooks.
From $8/month · founding-member pricing
Tell us about you two
A 10–15 minute questionnaire: your date style, budget, city, and sitter situation.
Fresh date ideas, every month
You pick your favorites and we build them in full: real local venues, budget breakdowns, timing, and a backup for every night.
Keep the night
Send us your photos and voice notes, and the night becomes a scrapbook forever.
What a month actually looks like
Every month we design your date ideas: a going-out option, a staying-in upgrade, and a wildcard you probably wouldn't have thought of. On Basic you see three and pick the one we build in full; each built date names real places in your city, tells you what to book and when, breaks down the cost before you commit, and includes a backup in case of rain, a canceled sitter, or a mood change. Use them or save them. They are yours to keep.
Premium couples get to play favorites: we design five ideas, you lock in the three that feel most like you two, and you can leave a little note on any pick (“start it after 7”) that we build around. Every pick, pass, and note teaches us your taste, so next month's five arrive even closer to the mark.
Tight budget? Kids at home? No sitter? We account for all of it. Some of our favorite dates cost exactly $0, because a great date runs on imagination, not money. Plans range from completely free to $500+ nights out, and every one shows you the cost before you commit.
The part you'll keep forever
Every date comes with little keepsake moments built in. A question to ask each other over dinner. A few seconds of video worth taking on the walk. After the date, send us your photos and voice notes and we'll turn the night into a keepsake scrapbook: your pictures, your captions, the questions you answered, kept in your own gallery. A year from now you won't just remember that you went out. You'll have the night itself.
And the longer you're with us, the better the dates get. After each one, tell us what landed and what flopped. Your feedback, your favorite spots, and your history all shape the next month's plans. We never repeat a venue, and we remember that you hated the pottery class.
Choose your membership
Basic Membership
Three date ideas a month. We build your favorite.
- 3 fresh date ideas every month: pick the 1 that feels most like you, and we build it in full
- 1 keepsake scrapbook of your night
- Smart feedback: tell us what landed, next month's plan adjusts
- Your dates and keepsakes, saved in your dashboard
- Game night: the cup draw — toss in up to 100 date ideas; your last 3 draws stay saved
- A shared couples calendar and 1 important-date reminder
- Memory vault: store up to 5 important dates & facts about you two
Annual = 12 months for the price of 10.
Premium Membership
Five custom date ideas a month. We build out your 3 favorites.
Everything in Basic, plus:
- 5 date ideas instead of 3, and we build your three favorites (Basic builds one)
- Tell us why you picked them, and next month arrives closer to the mark
- 3 keepsake scrapbooks, one for every night
- 1 free birthday plan every membership year
- Unlimited memory vault entries (Basic keeps 5)
- Partner survey: they take their own questionnaire for deeper insight
- The rest of the arcade: the newlywed game, future us, bucket list, and the getaway picker
- Up to 50 important-date reminders (Basic keeps 1) — we email you 14 days and 3 days before
- A shared couples calendar for the two of you
- Cup draw memory: 2,000 saved ideas and your last 100 draws
- Founding-member thank-you: 1 free vacation plan a year, for a limited time (a founding perk, not a standard Premium feature)
Annual = 12 months for the price of 10.
Premium + Getaways
Everything in Premium, plus a real vacation planned every quarter.
Everything in Premium, plus:
- 4 full vacation plans a year: one unlocks every quarter. Take the trip questionnaire, and a real day-by-day trip arrives like any of your date nights
- The trip keepsake: a question a day, captures, and a last-night capsule; the gold thread travels with you
- Built from your saved home base and your Where Are We Going? draws
- First access to every new feature we ship
Annual = 12 months for the price of 10.
Cancel anytime from your dashboard. Proposals and birthday plans are one-time purchases, no membership needed. By joining you agree to our Terms of Service.
Not ready? Play the free date night cup draw: toss your ideas in the cups, pull tonight's date. No sign-up needed.
Membership questions
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes, in two clicks from your dashboard, no email required and no guilt trip. Your keepsake scrapbooks stay yours forever, even after you cancel.
What if we skip a month?
Life happens. Your dates don't expire, so save them for a month with more room in it. Your next month's plans pick right back up where you left off.
What exactly is a keepsake scrapbook?
After a date, you send us your photos and voice notes. We turn them into a beautiful scrapbook page of the night: your pictures, handwritten-style captions, and the questions you answered over dinner, kept in your own private gallery.
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